Women have great power. It’s inherent. Hell, we literally birth other humans! But far too often, we usurp our inherent power in small but meaningful ways. Whether in our bodies, our language, our fears or our apologies, we are the arbiters of our own power and often that means we are the destroyers of it as well. In today’s episode, we unpack the power women have in their 20s, whether we have it in our 30s and 40s, and then dig deep into the language women self-destruct with in the office.
Emotional labor (a.k.a. giving a f*ck) is the process of managing feelings and expressions as part of fulfilling the requirements of any job. Like any labor, any one individual’s ability to perform it is finite and has value (nobody has an infinite supply of f*cks to give). This week on Office Baggage, we talk about allocating our care and concern to the highest value items and avoiding low return, brand damaging, emotional labor. This includes everything from soothing bruised egos, to smiling hollowly when someone makes a worse version of a joke we told, to worrying about friends and colleagues that have gotten themselves in to charged situations.
We celebrate women who bring their whole selves to work in order to drive maximum value. . . but how much authenticity is too much? On this episode of Office Baggage, we talk about boundaries. Should Miki Agrawal have sensed that somewhere between grabbing her employee’s breasts and calling into meetings from her toilet, her actions had gone from creating a culture that destigmatizes women’s bodies to creating a hostile work environment? As we develop close relationships with colleagues and teammates, are we making the same mistakes as Miki? Read More
For women in the corporate world, our problems are real right here at home in the U.S.of.A., but things become even more complicated when you add in cultural differences. Marcy found herself in South America this week dealing with a host of hilarious foibles. This leads us to recap (better late than never) International Women’s Day, and begin to question the real differences between men and women in the working world.
Each week, we work to choose topics that are applicable to all of our friends in business, no matter their gender, but we unashamedly come at these topics from the perspective of corporate women. This week, we’re talking about some of the things women in business have to deal with that men usually (not always, but usually) don’t. What words are you being called behind your back? How do you think about sexual harassment in the office? And how do you tackle safety in general in your life? Read More
Rae and Marcy met in Kellogg’s Executive MBA program and bonded over sarcasm and raw ambition. In fact, this entire podcast was originally titled “The Fat Chick and the Token Jew.” On this first mini episode, Marcy and Rae introduce themselves and discuss their process to launch this cast. Read More
No matter your age or tenure in business, chances are, if you’re a woman in business, you’ve been “mansplained.” What is mansplaining? To mansplain, a verb, (of a man) explain (something) to someone, typically a woman, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronizing. Read More
Welcome to our first shownotes page for the first mini episode of Office Baggage. We are so excited to launch this podcast. It’s been in the making for months and having it public now is an honor. Read More